Find the support that fits where you are now
You may be trying to support recovery, wondering whether your help is making a difference, still deciding what to do, living apart or rebuilding after the relationship has changed.
Wherever you are, you do not need vague encouragement. You need clear information, practical tools and support that respects the complexity of your situation.
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Start with free resources
Practical worksheets, guides and tools to help you understand what is happening and begin taking your next step.
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Clear, thoughtful guidance on boundaries, enabling, communication, guilt and rebuilding your life.
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Ongoing self-coaching tools, monthly teaching, group support and practical guidance for only US$10 per month.
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Personalised coaching for complex decisions, difficult patterns and the next step that is right for you.
Private. Compassionate. No shame.
You will never be pressured to stay, leave, forgive, detach or disclose more than feels safe.
You will be encouraged to understand what is happening, make your own informed decisions and remain connected to your dignity and values.
Hi, I’m Megan Ruffino
I support women whose lives have been affected by a child’s, partner’s or family member’s addiction.
You may still be trying to support recovery. You may be questioning whether your help is helping. You may be living apart, considering leaving or trying to recover after the relationship has ended.
Wherever you are, it can be difficult to know what is yours to carry, what belongs to them and what you are entitled to choose for yourself.
My approach combines lived experience, professional coaching and practical self-coaching tools to help you understand the patterns, respond more deliberately and rebuild trust in your own judgement.
You may not be able to control their recovery.
But you can learn what helps, what harms and what your next step needs to be.
Not sure where to begin?
The List is a free introductory training designed to help you recognise the patterns that may be keeping you stuck and begin seeing your situation more clearly.
Their addiction cannot be your whole life
You can love them, hope for their recovery and still protect your wellbeing, your future and your right to make choices for yourself.
The Anchored & Rising Circle offers practical guidance, self-coaching tools and steady support to help you respond more clearly and take your next step with greater confidence.
Start with a 7-day free trial, then US$10 per month. Cancel any time.