addiction relationships

The Invisible Roles Keeping You Stuck When You Love Someone With Addiction

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When you love someone with an addiction, it is easy to get pulled into invisible roles — rescuer, victim, persecutor, fixer, referee, protector. This post explains the Drama Triangle in simple language and shows how to begin stepping out of the cycle without becoming cold, cruel, or detached.

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What This Relationship Is Trying to Teach You

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When you love someone with addiction, the pain isn’t random. Here’s what this experience may be asking of you—and why it’s so hard to step back.

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The Difference Between Care and Rescue

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When you love someone with addiction, care can quietly become rescue. This article explores the difference — and how over-helping may be costing you your voice, your peace, and your boundaries.